Transpersonal Couples Therapy
This work is not traditional couples therapy. It is ceremony. It is a sacred space for deep listening, unwinding unconscious dynamics, and returning to the truth of your connection—whether that means staying, parting, or transforming the space between.
Relational Ceremony for Couples
A dedicated container rooted in depth, presence and conscious connection.
Your relationship is more than two people—it lives as a field, a dynamic, a resonance. In this work we honour the relational field as both mirror and teacher: what unfolds between you reveals what also lives within you. My invitation is that we enter those spaces together—body, mind, and field—in service of clarity, transformation, and deeper intimacy.
Unconscious Agreements
At the outset of many relationships we make invisible agreements: “I will hold your sadness so you don’t have to feel alone.” “You will carry my safety so I can keep going.” These unconscious contracts, while once adaptive, continue to shape the architecture of closeness. Over time, as each of you grows, evolves, awakens, the old contracts may no longer serve. Yet the dynamic remains—silent, persistent, unseen—because the pattern holds the history of your bond. In our work together we bring those contracts into the open: we observe how they anchor the field, how they limit your free movement, and how they may need to be consciously released or renegotiated so that the relationship can survive—and flourish—in a new key.
This work is not traditional couples therapy. It is ceremony. It is a sacred space for deep listening, unwinding unconscious dynamics, and returning to the truth of your connection—whether that means staying, parting, or transforming the space between.
“We came to Deborah when we had tried everything else. The work with her stripped us bare—in the best possible way. It brought us to the truth of our dynamic, and from there, we could rebuild from presence and conscious choice.
We are no longer circling the same old patterns—we are free of the binds that held us. This work changed our life. It gave us back a future together, when we thought that was no longer possible.”
In this work, we explore: The Relational Field as a Living Entity
This work gently brings these old vows into the light, offering space to release, renegotiate, or transmute them. We may use symbolic ritual or breath-based ceremony to sever outdated energetic cords and restore sovereignty within connection.
Somatic Depth & Breathwork Ceremony
The body holds the blueprint of what’s unresolved. In session, we may use somatic inquiry and guided breathwork to open channels of expression and access deeper emotional clarity. This can be profoundly liberating—especially when words fall short.
Intimacy, Polarity & Erotic Trust
Whether touch is present or not, we explore what intimacy truly means for you. What allows safety? What rekindles desire? We look at the energetic and emotional scaffolding beneath erotic trust, using gentle practices to repair or reawaken connection.
Working at Thresholds: Breakups, Decisions, Transitions
Not all couples come to deepen. Some come to let go with grace. This work can hold all thresholds—beginnings, endings, and everything in between. When transitions are met ceremonially, they leave less residue. They bless what was and clear the field for what’s next.
Subtle Realms of Insight
For those who feel called, deeper ceremonial containers may be available to access expanded states of insight. While not disclosed publicly, this work honours the ancient technologies of heart-opening, truth-seeking, and deep relational presence.
